Upcoming Events
December 18th & January 29th - Virtual Webinar Series
A two-part series on disability, race, gender, eugenics, spoon theory, and interdependence where being disabled doesn’t mean being alone.
Hosted by The Yarrow Collective.
Free tickets available on Eventbrite.
Dec 18th, 2025 - Join Xander for the first event
Tangled Histories: Our Shared Oppression Requires Our Shared Liberation
Queer, disabled, and racialized bodies have long been criminalized, erased, and pathologized. This webinar exposes how these identities have always been co-constructed throughout American history and reveals how these intersecting timelines shape the world we live in. Lastly, we focus on disabled realities and explore models of hope and resistance based on Xander’s current practice with interdependent care work.
Jan 29th, 2026 - Join Xander for part 2
Spoon Alchemy: Reimagining Disabled Life Beyond Individualism
Together we will trace the legacy of eugenics in America and how it continues to shape our world today. We’ll connect historical patterns to present day experiences with disability. The session will explore and expand upon spoon theory and invite reflection on how we resist and reimagine in community.
Oct 10th, 2025 - Held Together Live Event
The Cost of Being "Nice": Fawning, Pleasing, and Lovability
Xander Peer Keller and Etel Leit met on the TEDx stage. Join them on Zoom to dive into their experiences of fawning, how it has shaped their relationships, and what it takes to unlearn people-pleasing without losing tenderness.
Sliding scale tickets on Eventbrite.
Sept 10th, 2025 - Held Together Live Event
Unlikely Channels: Weed, Needles, Chronic Pain, and Spirit
Join Xander Peer Keller on Zoom for a behind-the-scenes look at their relationship with acupuncturist Tom Kirby. Together, they reflect on the role cannabis has played in survival and spiritual insight, the complex path toward sobriety, and the importance of making space for many ways of healing.
Sliding scale tickets on Eventbrite.
July 28th, 2025 - Held Together Live Event
Rituals of Becoming: Magic and Disability as Transformation
Join Xander Peer Keller on Zoom for a conversation with Raven Hinojosa about how magic has shaped their relationship to disability and each other.
Sliding scale tickets on Eventbrite.
May 14th, 2025 - Held Together Live Event
Unchosen Paths: How childlessness and incurable illness brings us closer to ourselves and each other
Join Xander Peer Keller on Zoom for storytelling and a behind-the-scenes look at their relationship with Amy Porter exploring how sense of self has evolved for both of them individually and in relationship.
Sliding scale tickets on Eventbrite.
April 9th, 2025 - Held Together Live Event
Between Us: Disability, Care, and Friendship
Join Xander Peer Keller on Zoom for storytelling and a behind-the-scenes look at their inter-abled relationship with Beth Wittmann.
Sliding scale tickets on Eventbrite.